Hmmm... Still thinking.
Why?
In contrast to the first post i feel some difficulty in this.
What's that?
The first one was just a 'Yes/No' question.
So?
But this question has multiple answers. Actually the answers are legion.
Oh fine dude... Just decide something...
Still thinking...
May be this???
Nope...
May be that???
No way... K fine... I've decided it.... Stop messing around....
I told that sometimes I feel astounded at certain things... This is one of em... To be precise this is just a snippet of a poem...
"ROWTHIRAM PAZHAGU"
Most of us might have heard it somewhere. This is nothing but a snippet from Mahakavi Bharathiyar's "Puthiya Aathichudi".
A few days back I was listening to the song "Acham thavir" from Anjathe. And suddenly there was a spark in my mind when I heard the line "Rowthiram Pazhagu".... Then i started analysing this....
Anger.... More often than not, one of the worst emotions and everybody hates that... Then my mind started rolling few years back...
During my school days my mom used to (and still) recite(s) that her elder son (yeah that's me) is a calmmmmmmmmm and quiet guy who seldom gets angry and my brother is really splenetic...
So in general everybody likes a calm guy... But why did such a pioneer, a prodigy and a great intellect like Mahakavi ask us to practice or learn to be angry... That perplexed me a lot... So I came to a conclusion that am not getting the actual meaning that was connoted...
I tried to analyse this further.... After many hours of cerebration I got the real meaning.. Or at the least I just got a convincing meaning...
Many of us doesn't know that each and every human emotion is a source of energy. We'll do extraordinary and unusual things whenever we are drenched in any of the emotions...
E.g : Your friends may be pestering you for a treat for no good reason. But if a gal (whom you are ogling for a very long time) just gives a glimpse and if the same friend asks you for a treat at that time... That's it.. Like Alaipayuthey madhavan... "Ava enna pathutta!!!! Enna pathu sirichutta!!!!!!! Heyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!".....
The answer is none other than "Yes"...
This is nothing but a mere imbecility....
Yeah and i don't have better example :-(
So whenever we are happy, sad, angry, etc enormous amount of energy flows throw our body with the help of adrenalin and make us to do wonders...
Mahakavi got this instinct well before the cyber age and crafted a very beautiful poem...
So when we are happy, we'll try to make others happy. When we are sad, we try to share our melancholy with our friends,family to half the sadness...
But what do we do if we get angry??? Fine... Let me rephrase the question. What will I do if am angry?
Either I will let my anger go by reciprocating it right away with much more rage...
Or I will keep it inside me and worry about it often...
Am doing a very big mistake here.... Both the approaches are fallacious... In the first one am just letting my whole energy to drain at some trivial things... In the second approach am not at all using the energy...
So what should i do now?
Lemme think... When will you get angry?
When something/somebody insults me, during some failures, when something/somebody acts against my wish....
Lemme do this...
Whenever such things happen, do not let your energy drain into some petty things... Whenever someone insults you , just keep it inside... Experience it, Feel it, suffer it and take right steps to win it... To endure this we need abundant energy and that will come from our anger.... This is what they call as "Controlled Anger".
And this is what Mahakavi wants us to understand.... Turning a negative point/weakness to 100% positive point...
And finally i got the gist of the snippet....
"Controlled anger is the best source of energy and great success"...
And I was thinking about all these sitting in front of my computer doing nothing and oh god am in my office... I just made sure that none is looking at me... Thank god, else everyone will think that am such a schmuck...
I didn't even know how much time i spent on this but i never regretted for the lost time as I got an useful tip...
Hollooooooooooo and i just finished my second post.....
